In conversation with some colleagues, the topic of being a freelance audiobook narrator came up and we began to get curious about how better to handle our time and energy. I am grateful to Steve and Mike for their honesty in this discussion and the thoughts we were able to clarify as a result

Boundaries
It is important to create boundaries around work and life. As a freelancer each will encroach on the other. It is wonderful to be able to set your own work hours which allow you to participate in personal moments, whether it is a school recital or helping a friend. However, the tendency is that one has to give for the other to succeed. Work needs to get done and loved ones need quality time. So how do we balance this ongoing see-saw? We need to make sure that we are aware of our own preferences and that when we are saying yes to others, we are not saying no to ourselves. There is a balance to be found but it is an ongoing discovery that shifts and changes as we do. Work out what you would like to have happen and schedule more of that.

Communication
People like to know where they stand, whether it is as a family member or a client, communication is key. Setting expectations and meeting them is important for everyone’s sanity. This doesn’t mean there can’t be any changes, a fixed mindset won’t allow for the creative atmosphere that we all crave, but a skeleton outline allows you and others to know what comes next and stops you drifting between things without purpose. We also know that many of us work better with deadlines, so if you know you only have a certain amount of time to fulfil a project, you are more likely to be focussed on it. Set your goals and be vocal about your priorities.

Respect
This one is my favourite. if you expect other people to take you seriously, you have to take yourself seriously. Many family members will imagine that because you are at home all day, this makes you available for household chores and odd jobs. Set your working hours so that you have home hours too. When I began, I had a tendency to think about work all the time. As my own boss, my brain was always wondering where the next contract might be or reminding me to make sure i wasn’t missing out on any opportunities. I had to remind myself that when i worked in an office, i might have thought about work, but i didn’t do anything about it unless i was physically in the building. Working from home means i am always available, which is a sure fire path to burn out. Set your working hours and make them non-negotiable. Do the same with your family and friends time.